Communicate Feelings






Communicating feelings is often very hard. People are usually more introverted when it comes to talking about their feelings. You just don`t want to open up, especially if you had a bad experience in the past about this subjects. Trust is also a very important factor in communicating feelings. You can`t just start talking and open up your soul to someone you don`t really trust and know. Whether it`s your family, brother or sister, lover or friends communicating feelings is difficult. Opening up means vulnerability and people can be mean if they want to, and this can in time back-fire. So, you have to choose carefully the person whom you want to share your feelings to. A very good friend or your life partner are very good choices.

Friends usually understand better than family , what`s on your mind, because a friend knows everything and sees the great picture. Talking to members of your family is more difficult because they judge you and make you do things you don`t really want to. Maybe you just need an advice to figure out things and a friend is probably the best choice. If you have difficulty in sharing feelings here are some advices to help you open up more easily: first you need to choose the right place and time to share something so profound. Choose a location where you can both speak without interruption and most importantly, the other person has to be available and not stressed.





If you are upset about something and you want to share this, then it`s best to avoid a critical tone of voice. You can always begin with something you both agree on and then express your dissatisfaction but with a calm attitude. Judgmental thinking it`s best to be avoided. Nobody can judge, only God is the one that has this right. If it`s about peaceful feelings like love and care, then also the location is very important as well as the words you choose. If you want to make a love declaration then it`s best to just talk from your heart, it will be more real and more moving than having an already thought speech.

Communication is very important in any relationship. Whether it`s with colleagues at work, with family or friends , communication is the key element of a really rewording relationship. Communicating feelings is probably the most difficult part, because is hard to tell somebody you care about, that they have hurt you or that you are disappointed of their actions. People are sensitive and hard-headed so you have to be careful at the way you are sharing any kind of feelings. Don`t let yourself be overwhelmed by bad thoughts and wrong ideas. No matter how hard it is to share feelings this is a thing you should definitely do. In order to make the situation better or improve a situation , talking about what bothers you or talking about your feelings you have for somebody, makes you fell more at ease and released from a continuous stress.

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Published by admin, on Jan 19 2009, in the categories: Uncategorized

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